The Book List
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All books on this page are books I personally recommend from my healing journey from trauma.
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Comprehensive Book List for Trauma Recovery
Trauma
- The Body Keeps The Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma - Van Der Kolk
- Complex PTSD - From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map for Recovering from Childhood Trauma - Walker
- Trauma and Recovery - The Aftermath of Violence--from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror - Herman
- No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model - Schwartz
- My Grandmother's Hands - Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies - Menakem
Dissociation
Insomnia
Shame and Such
- I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn't): Making the Journey from "What Will People Think?" to "I Am Enough" - Brown (geared at women)
- Gifts of Imperfection - Brown
- Rising Strong: How the Ability to Reset Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead - Brown
- Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone - Brown
- Dare to Lead: Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts. - Brown
- Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha - Brach
- Facing Codependency - Mellody
- Loyal to a Fault: How to Establish New Patterns When Loving Others Has Left You Hurting - Burg (Christian perspective)
Family Dynamics
- Good Inside: A Practical Guide to Resilient Parenting Prioritizing Connection Over Correction - Kennedy (not just for parents)
- Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents - Gibson
- The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment - Pressman
- The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self - Miller
- Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You - Forward
- Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment - Levine
- Understanding the Borderline Mother: Helping Her Children Transcend the Intense, Unpredictable, and Volatile - Lawson (If borderline mom)
- Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder - Mason, Krueger
Sexual Abuse
- Secret Survivors: Uncovering Incest and Its Aftereffects in Women - Blume
- Trauma and Recovery - The Aftermath of Violence--from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror - Herman
- The Courage to Heal Workbook: A Guide for Women and Men Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse - Davis
- The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse - Maltz
Other Helpful Concepts
- The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence - De Becker
- Don't Believe Everything You Think: Why Your Thinking Is The Beginning & End Of Suffering - Nguyen
- The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict - The Arbinger Institute
- Leadership and Self Deception: The Secret to Transforming Relationships and Unleashing Results - The Arbinger Institute
- The Outward Mindset: Seeing Beyond Ourselves - The Arbinger Institute
- The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom - Ruiz
- Rewire: Understanding the Neuroscience Behind Behavior Change and Mental Wellbeing - Vignola
- Your Purpose Is Calling: Your Difference Is Your Destiny - Daniels (Christian perspective)
- When the Body Says No - Maté
- On Combat: The Psychology and Physiology of Deadly Conflict in War and in Peace - Grossman
- Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain - Edwards
- Man's Search for Meaning - Frankl
- Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High - Grenny
- Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity - Allen
Spirituality
- The Book of Forgiving - Tutu
- The Yamas & Niyamas: Exploring Yoga's Ethical Practice - Adele
- The Kleshas: Exploring the Elusiveness of Happiness - Adele
- Tattoos on the Heart: The Power of Boundless Compassion - Boyle
- Barking to the Choir: The Power of Radical Kinship - Boyle
- Strength to Love - King, Jr.
- The Dhammapada - Maitreya
- Shakti Rising: Embracing Shadow and Light on the Goddess Path to Wholeness - Chinnaiyan
- Living Buddha, Living Christ - Hanh
- How to Sit - Hanh
- How to Love - Hanh
- No Mud No Lotus: The Art of Transforming Suffering - Hanh
- Grace (Eventually) Thoughts on Faith - Lamott
- The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire: Harnessing the Infinite Power of Coincidence - Chopra
- Changing Lenses - Dass
- Be Here Now - Dass
- The Prophet - Gibran
- The Book: On the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are - Watts